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Some of you may have been born into money. Others had to work to achieve.
The experiences may have been different or the same. I have two questions:
1) Were you born into financially stable future?
2) On your rise to new succcess(es), were you able to retain the same friends or did you find yourself making new best friends?
To me, this is more about finding comfort in newfound positions of success. Lots of people will go through this repeated cycle. Great psychological insight.
Answering my own questions:
1) I was born into a lower middle class family that worked into the stable middle class. I wasn't born without opportunity but I def was eating 'spam' as a kid and spent summers with family in a rural country town where roaches were plentiful . I spent quite a few times in trailors without knowing how city society viewed 'us' in those enviornments but it's majorly different there. My mom hates me telling that because she grew out of it .. 1st generation. lol
2) On my rise to success I lost tons of friends. I realized our dedication to work and achieving were different. I also found a lot of people would become jealous and try to get attention, as I would get, in my position of 'over achiever.'
I have 1 best friend who I did grow up with out of like 30. I don't talk to anyone else consistently that i grew up with really. People from my neighborhood as a kid, i'll always talk to and I have people I'm always open to around my city. Good people BUT i know, our mentalities went in different directions. There's only one person who i consider a 'brother' from growing up.
I've since met 2 people I'm really cool with . We travel together & meet up places. We've done the couple dates thing, always a good experience.
The experiences may have been different or the same. I have two questions:
1) Were you born into financially stable future?
2) On your rise to new succcess(es), were you able to retain the same friends or did you find yourself making new best friends?
To me, this is more about finding comfort in newfound positions of success. Lots of people will go through this repeated cycle. Great psychological insight.
Answering my own questions:
1) I was born into a lower middle class family that worked into the stable middle class. I wasn't born without opportunity but I def was eating 'spam' as a kid and spent summers with family in a rural country town where roaches were plentiful . I spent quite a few times in trailors without knowing how city society viewed 'us' in those enviornments but it's majorly different there. My mom hates me telling that because she grew out of it .. 1st generation. lol
2) On my rise to success I lost tons of friends. I realized our dedication to work and achieving were different. I also found a lot of people would become jealous and try to get attention, as I would get, in my position of 'over achiever.'
I have 1 best friend who I did grow up with out of like 30. I don't talk to anyone else consistently that i grew up with really. People from my neighborhood as a kid, i'll always talk to and I have people I'm always open to around my city. Good people BUT i know, our mentalities went in different directions. There's only one person who i consider a 'brother' from growing up.
I've since met 2 people I'm really cool with . We travel together & meet up places. We've done the couple dates thing, always a good experience.
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